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Not only that, but let's be serious. How many men exist who would give her the leeway I have given her? Most would be the 'kick her to the curb' type a long long time ago.


Now that's what I'm talking about buddy. That's exactly right and you have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. You stood for your marriage like a champ, no regrets.

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Here's the issue though. If I DO that she MIGHT feel like she has to push for spousal or child support to get the $$$ to afford such a place. Right now it's pretty clear she just 'want's out' and is ignorant.


I am not trying to be a dick here or anything Frank, but....

Can she really afford to "fight" you for anything?

AND....

She doesn't have to know that a lawyer reviewed it, it's just to cover your own asss. Your not an attorney, you have no idea how "straight forward" this divorce will be.


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It's statements like this that make me cry. Up till now I've had one friend who would say this. Now I have many. Thank you so much.


You know Frank, it is possible to be an alpha male and still express feelings.....

Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09