oh, and i have realized that the ow does not think she is the ow. she thinks i am the ow, if anything. when she met my h, she didnt know he was married, then i think thought he was separated, now i think she thinks we are going through a divorce. she sees the lies unfolding but i guess he covers them up somehow.i really think she as if she feels she has the right to tell me to leave THEM alone.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09