lwb - I went to Fl in 8/07, and it was great to get away (I took the kids with me, but relatives watched them while I met some DBers, too). And Feb is a MUCH better time to go!
Stinky about the job, but the good news seems to have balanced life out a bit, at least. I agree about the OW - I have been much more relaxed that she moved out of the house across the street.
You seem to be doing so well, and keeping the babes right where they need to be. Happy New Year! Its all up from here!