i have taken charge of the financials to the best of my ability. i do not work, i am a stay at home mom. i have taken over the handling of his credit card debt, i handle the calls in negiotating deals with the creditors or i dispute them to buy time. i am working with a lawyer to save our home. if i let it sell in this market, i will walk away with no money and will have nothing to put down on a new home and will be renting indefinitely. i open all mail, and none of it is addressed to me. and he knows. i was never in charge of the bills, because there was never reason to be until he lost control. i no longer have my amex card to buy anything and everything. but i make sure i debit from our account, rather than let my parents help us. i know he is paying stuff for the ow, not like he was, but i know he still is. i get print outs from the bank, i monitor our account as best i can. i withdraw small amounts of money and put it away for myself as a savings.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
