So in reality YOU have two problems. One being the WAS who appears to not be making a commitment one way or the other. The second being your finances. In a list of priorities protecting YOU and your son, the finances has to come first. I don't want to come off as harsh, but you need to take care of your priorities being you and your son. I have recently come into the same situation as I was let go from my job. Through the strength and resolve I have learned through this board and the books...I took hold of the situation and am starting my own business. The situation with my wife is the last thing on my mind since providing for my children is the number one priority. Your only responsibility is for yourself and your son, is what I am trying to say. Prioritize the things that matter. If the house is pulling you under, let it go. It is only a material possession. I know that looking at all this through a logical hard a@@ pair of glasses sucks, but stop letting him control your life and safety financially and take control of it yourself. You have been at this for a long time and from that I am positive you have the strength and resolve to take care of the priorities.
