Silverado, thanks for your support. It is amazing that these waywards are not accountable and we have to step in because we are blocked against a wall

S@S, I remember reading your quote and not sure which poster had it, amazing you stopped by because it stuck with me in making this decision. God does work in mysterious ways.

I did go in at the end of the day. PM was shocked first that we had seperated (told no one at work - so how much of an enabler was I with this A), and then told him that H was having A with direct report. We had a long talk and he can't get back to me for a couple of days since he will be on the road. It is in God's hands.

I have to believe in the end that I am saving him. He looks terrible.
Please pray for us.

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09