i thank you. he does not have ADD that i am aware of. i do believe he is in a quarter ilfe crisis though. i think it may be a case of a young guy having too much money, too much responsibility too soon in life. and it all caught up with him. we met young, i was his first real girlfriend, we got engaged when he was 21, i was 22 and we were married the next year, and then had a baby a year later. he likes a good project, he likes to plan parties, perhaps to distract himself from something, i do not know. it is a personality trait he had long before i met him.

the financial problem is what makes me nervous right now. i feel like financially we do not have the time to let this play out much longer.

me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09