This bugs me...and I don't think it should...but it does.

H has not tried to see the kids with any extra effort of his own..only goes with the flow on anything the kids and I have planned and just hangs around. I do my best to give them space as much as possible.

The kids would rather be here with him, than at his place.

For some reason, it has become important to H that they go over to his place after school tomorrow and spend Friday night. I believe he will try to extend it to Sat. night after he has them there.

I will enjoy the space.

I'm bothered by his over zealous effort. I don't trust him, or his actions.

When asked if they want to spend the night at dad's tomorrow, each kid, individually asked 'why?'

Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home