he once confided in one mutual friend and he couldnt say anything but the best about me. he had said it was never about me. and the friend said, then why are u leaving?
If its about him, then its for him to work out, if he will. In my situation I can now see the things I did/didn't do that contributed to the breakdown of my M. I am responsible for 50% of the things that got us to a place where he was open to an A. The choices he made after that are solely his, but I have had to see my part in it as well. I am still learning about my shortcomings as a partner.
Maybe both of you would benefit from some IC. A good C can help you see what areas of the M needed work. Just my .02
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
