i havent read that book yet, i should. i think what i could change is add more affection to our interactions such as make sure i kiss him hello, goodbye, hugs etc. however, lately i have been reaching the point where enough is enough. that no matter what i seem to do, no matter what he tells me, he still isnt home or ending it with her. ive toyed with removing the friendliness to make it clear we are nothing until she is out of the picture. i just dont think it would help.

would i appear like a fool for turning up the charm?

me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09