I know what is right but I find that I second and third guess myself. If this was about anyone else but my H I would have turned them in months ago, that is why it is the right thing to do.
I TOTALLY understand the second, third, etc... guessing yourself. I also get that it would be easier if it was not the person you are M to, you wouldn't be emotionally invested. Like my signature says, you don't to the right thing because its easy, you do it because its the right thing to do. Usually the right thing is the hardest thing. My heart goes out to you. I'm praying for you, no matter what you choose.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option