Hi LL,

Well, ya GOTTA know if anyone can commisserate on the football fiasco it's ME!

Actually, LL, when CJ and I were engaged and living together, about 4 months BEFORE our wedding, some gal pals threw a lingerie shower for me.

MY very first clue about my married sex-life to come, was when I got all "gussied up" and walked into the living room (I'm talking painful stillettos and all!) CJ just looked at me, said he was tired and went to sleep!!!!

God I can still remember the get-up I was wearing! I was dumbfounded, and it sure put a stall on my efforts to "dress up" for lovin'. (Not to say that I haven't since, but I KNOW how much deeper the sting is when you've made yourself that obvious!)

Shiny

P.S. Glad to see you back in "fighting" mode, vs "I'm outta here!"