I noticed that you just joined the bb a few days ago. Where is your thread? You mention that your H is an alcoholic. Mine as well (a functioning one). I'd just like to read your sitch. Just in your brief post you said some things that really hit home with me.
Mel....sorry for hijacking your thread.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day