I did search the internet....on OW and her H. I get nothing on her H but I know he has a cell phone as well cause H has told me that sometimes OW's H will be following behind her heading home and will keep her on the phone all the way til they get home.
I have tried all the places I could find. I just haven't paid for anything cause not sure that I would find it.
She did have the same cell service as me and H but not anymore and I don't know who she now has. I have her cell # but that is it.
I tried using the fax # and got nothing. That is what is so odd. I spent many many nights on here trying to find a # for him as well as my friends doing the same thing and we all came up empty handed:(
The only way I would be able to confront OW's H alone would be to sit on their road real early in the morning sometime and wait for him to leave and go where he goes. OW knows what I drive.
Wonder if I could call a few cell phone providers and ask them over the phone for his #?
if u have her cell number, look it up online, it will give u the carrier. then, go to the store in your area, if they are not busy, turn on your charm. tell them u could use alittle help. usually a guy will help us girls out when we turn on the charm, but just yesterday a girl helped me, let me come behind the desk. tell them u need the other number on the account and give them the names and the one cell number u have. u may just get it.
if u pay an internet site, i think it was like $15, if they turn up nothing, they issue a credit to your account.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
Thank you mdoodles....just did the search and found the carrier:) Now I just have to find a sweet person who works there and hope they will "help me out".
oh, u will totally find someone. and if not, go to another location. dont be shy. tell them the situation and they will help you. go when its empty...
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
Funny thing is....H said she did not have the same service that we do but turns out she does...all she did was change her plan.
Well I have to go after work tomorrow and pay my bill anyway so while I am there I will have to see what I can accomplish.
Another thing, when I found the marriage license and learned of her H's name, I told my H that I knew his name but did not tell him how I found out. A day or so later, H told me that was not her H's name. That she was married to that person but he died. She since re-married. Well according to the marriage licenses that are public record, he was the last one she married.
So I am pretty positive I have his name correct. I know her married name and her maiden name and anytime I pull up her name either way, her H's name is associated with it.
i have now learned that even when confronted with the truth regarding the ow, they lie. so your h was not going to tell u that u had the right name - trying to throw you off.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
Not having a good day at all:( Last night and this morning me and H have been fighting. I am just so sick of being second best to that OW.
H is taking D7 this weekend and I figured that since he was not working today he would want her after school. I called him when I went to pick her up and he claimed he had a few errands to run and would have to get her later.
I happened to pass by him without him seeing me just before picking D7 up and he was headed in the direction that OW lives at the time OW leaves to start her day. So I am sure that he had to see OW before the weekend since he cannot see her during the weekend with D7. He makes me sick!
How can these idiots put their OP before their own kids???
Anyway now I am on a mission to expose to OW H. I went to the cell carrier and they will give me NO info. They said they are not allowed. I even told them I could give them an address, phone number and name. Still a no go.
Another thing, when I found the marriage license and learned of her H's name, I told my H that I knew his name but did not tell him how I found out. A day or so later, H told me that was not her H's name. That she was married to that person but he died. She since re-married. Well according to the marriage licenses that are public record, he was the last one she married.
Are death records public in your state? You may want to check that out. I have a feeling as you do, that he is lying, but never hurts to double check.
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
you go to another location. u absolutely will find an employee willing to help you. no, they are not allowed to do it, but someone will. start out like this - say u want to check into your account, give your name and husbands name. ask what numbers are listed and slowly reveal your situation. then, they may be willing to help you on finding the ow h info.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
I don't know that death notices are public record here or not. I know I tried hard to find it online and all I could find was a section where you can order death certificates but you had to have certain info to obtain them.
mdoodles-My account is in my name only. H threatened to turn my cell off in the beginning of all this so rather than have that happen I went up there and got my own and then told him to turn the darn thing off:)
I was thinking all day of what to say to get them to help and I picked the one I thought was best but it didn't work. I need to find a scorned person who works there that has gone through this that might have pity on me and be more than willing to help:)
Just please pray for me cause I am gonna try contacting OW's H this weekend and I am scared to death but I know it needs to be done and he has a right to know. I just hope that he will listen.
