Don't pursue her now, meaning don't chase her for answers. Yes stay in the house. Let her keep doing that. Like I said you are doing fine, do not change speed yet. Act as if and see what happens next. Remember this ball is in her court, you are just watching the game in front of you. Hell I am taking your positon with mine right now. She is in it big time, I want to call her and pry and see, but I need to have her come to me. I am standing my ground and gong on "as if". Just like you are doing now.

Let all of the communication begin with her, let her keep coming to you, that is what needs to happen. And remember, believe none of what she says, half of what you see. Until He is gone, hold to that....I have your back and all the faith in you....