am I just an eternal pessimist?

[jethro]

h is quoted as having said is "I can be myself around her" hmmmmmm?

Eh...that sounds like WAS-speak and nothing more, really. My W would have likely said the same thing because when she was at the bar acting inappropriately, he wouldn't question her behavior, as he was a willing participant! Beer goggles, love goggles, smitten goggles, whatever...they're all false.

AOS??

Acts of Service...

possibly or perhaps or maybe these are ld people...in ssm I recall something about the ld at first upon entering a r (or in our cases re entering) they seem like they are hd only to then return to their ld ways.

I kind of get this, but what's HD?

do you still get a chill each and every time your w touches you?

Well...actually...sometimes... Typically, it's a warm feeling in my heart. Jeez...I sound like sap!

Don't know, LL...

jethro