Also, don't neglect or discount any positives that have come out of what you've done with the EMT classes. Take stock of some of the benefits that it reaps.

Doing this has probably shifted his image of you a bit. You've been wanting him to see you beyond your roles as wife and mother, and doing things like this could help cause that change to happen. From both sides of the coin. Makes it a win/win situation for you.

If you "think" that you're meeting resistance regarding this, and it's not all falling into place like you think it "should", don't let that stop you. Maybe the less time you make available for him because of doing these types of things, the more time he might "make" for the two of you when there's a chance?

JJ

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