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[mdoodles]

i have gone to ic throughout this ordeal. truthfully, we had a baby very young, he was 24, i was 25. it is a big shock to the system. i nursed my son for well over a year, which takes a toll on your sex life. it affects your ability to go out like we did, although by the time my son was 18 months- 2 years old, that had all changed. also, we took on a new house that was well above budget. as soon as we moved in and the work on the house stopped, i saw the change in him. he likes and needs a project. when there is no project, he gets in a funk and then it becomes about me. i think we got married young, we took on alot very fast and he felt he needed to escape.

i have changed everything i can in terms of our sex life and he knows that. i have tried being more affectionate when i have the opportunity. i do the best i can to talk to him and ask questions and be interested. he has never complained about anything else, we never would fight about anything, not money, not the house, nothing. i wish i had something else to change or fix. i wish i could say i should lose 10 pounds and that would do the trick.

can anyone think of something that might be the problem? in my opinion, i think my husband needs ic. he once confided in one mutual friend and he couldnt say anything but the best about me. he had said it was never about me. and the friend said, then why are u leaving?