SS your right it is not a man's perspective. I go onto the MB site too and they are all about imploding the A no matter what.
In my job I take a strong stand but in my M, I keep still seeking approval from my H and even "feeling sorry for him". I am still looking for my very ethical by the rules H but he is gone and replaced by a cheating, lying alien. Why would I want to protect him?
I am not ready to drop the rope and in the end I want my M to be reconciled.
Morally it is the right thing to do and I will do it. I actually walked over to see our PM on Monday and he had already left for the day. By the time I got to his office, I was in near anxiety attack.
I know God will protect me, and my family. I think this is one of the most difficult choices I have ever made. Please pray for our family.
God bless.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09