You know, I found some interesting parallels in our sitches in your latest threads. 1) Our Ses LL is Acts of Service 2) The way our Ses treat us is up and down...where one day they are apathetic and the next "engaged." 3) What engages our Ses? When we get PO'd usually. My W does the SAME thing as your H when she knows I'm not happy with her. She acts silly, makes goofy jokes, engages me in more conversation, etc. This she will only do when she knows she's the one to "blame" for the current predicament. She will also try to loosen me up with sex.
Hmmm...
So, looking at your situation and my situation, I'm trying to figure out some patterns here. Let me ask you something: Would you say your H's LL was always "acts of service?"
