I do hate to see his career shot down but I am not the one who has done this.
I have prayed and prayed for God to guide me on this. Some days I know fully it is the right thing to do and other days I still am trying to "protect my H" . Do you think it is the right thing to do from a man's perspective?
Hope protecting him is not helping him, its enabling him. Is there any chance that since he has been there so long that they would only reprimand him instead of firing him? Realistically, they both knew what the consequences would be if they were found out and proceeded anyway. Life is about choices and sometimes the choices you make bite you in the butt.
This is not a mans perspective, but from a woman whose H has an addiction that is out of control and an OW that participates in the addiction with him. Expose him and let the chips fall where they may. I believe like Puppy, God will provide for those that have faith in him.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option