I know exactly what you mean....when the whole bottom line is the only reason it's a problem in the first place is because they are doing something that they know you would not like.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
hey sc, sure will go check it out in a minute!! i mean, the part of me that sounds sick is I want her to see those pics, to see how much fun S had, and that he was taken care of and loved the whole damn time. for now I am not doing anything. had to talk to my exh w for a while, she had alot to say about this whole deal, and what the kids have shared. UGH. see i am damned if i do damned if i dont too lol!
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
Wow Hope just caught up. Sounds like a lot has happened. I'm sorry that the ow's h seems to be snapping. Unfortunately this is something that your H and she brought about. Which explains the drinking binge the other night in my mind. Remember he may be improving but I don't think you all are out of the woods yet and I hope you are prepared. He will bounce around for a while, especially since he does realize that he is the cause of the pain. Do your best to be strong and keep your health and attitude in check. Also, I would advise from the brain of a cheater, please be careful how upset you get when he does soemthing out of the ordinary. He feels guilty and he knows you will wonder where he is, what he is doing. If you want him to heal from that, and for your m to truly be healthy, he will have to as much as he can, you have to show him trust and support and love not anger and frustration. I know it sounds really stupid since it was you who was hurt and you whose trust was violated, but I guarantee if he feels like you are forever punishing him, your m will never be repaired. It is almost like starting from the beginning again, you have to just blindly trust him and his judgement, until he proves otherwise to you.
Love you girl.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
Hey Hope, I will be thinking of you when I am gone! I hope that everything will settle down for you and your H and the drama will leave you and your H alone and you two can heal. You deserve to be able to relax and and enjoy the time in the hot tub, without having to think too much about anything except joyful things!
Thank you so much for all of your support and the friendship you have given me!
morning girlie, just up on my first cup of coffee, so how did last nite go?
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
Busy morning at work. The coffee was good, but have move on to diet pepsi now, lol.
Last night was a bit strange, but I think I handled well. A girlfriend finally got a new job, so I took her out right after work for a drink. I told H about it when he called late morning, and he was all for it. So she and I went and had a nice time. I was home before 8. H was in kind of a strange mood. A little down, but not too bad.
This morning he had to get up early and plow. He came home before I had to leave for work and he cleaned off and started my car for me. I thnked him and told him I really appreciated that he did that. I've talked to him a couple of times this morning, once he called just to see how I was doing. That was nice.
I've got my fingers crossed for a peaceful weekend.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
mine are crossed for you too!! glad you had some girlfriend time last nite. i am sure that felt good. i am still on coffee, will move on to diet coke soon tho lol. so do you have any plans for the weekend?
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
