Hey T!....Well done! This sounds VERY good! I am pleasantly surprised that it went so well. Seems it went well, dont you think? (he has the MOON in Pisces, so love planet Venus is about to go over it!)
Some observations.. I liked that he was so easy going and I agree, it sounds like he wanted to 'show' you the secret bar and was a little disappointed he couldnt.. maybe something to do next time hey?
I was really glad to hear he was asking how long you are in town for.. my ex never ever has asked me questions of that natiure.. he didnt even ask me what I was doing for christmas, just said he wanted to be sure I'd still be at home for a few days to get my parcel.. so I liked that he asked you and it did seem as though he would meet up with you again?
I liked his point about meeting the cello teacher.. whether they COULD work with you or not, seems like he really engaged in the dilemma and got quite involved with your sitch, that seemed caring and genuine.
Bit of a shame on the ending.. with you being on different platforms, but that WOULD be awkward, I can imagine. So, you said, "see you soon" ? what did he say? He surprised you by keeping the contact going...you didnt know what to do and then he texted to see if you were in town! So for now..have faith and wait and see if he texts?? What are your plans for hanging around till Sunday?
My advice...you should try and see him again on the weekend before you go home. Astrologically, its an important weekend... theres a Full Moon in Cancer, linked to Uranus in Pisces and Mercury goes backwards on Saturday night too. So.. its a time of emotional revelations, might be surprising and therefore, unexpected, but whatever it is, its supposed to be information to your benefit, that we needed to know and isnt bad in the long run. I dont know, just seems a good weekend to meet him again, maybe you, or he will reveal something or find something out which either helps, or releases you in some way.
Lastly... I noticed that you are perhaps a bit timid around him.. with not wanting to make decisions or appear to be controlling.. but he is a smart guy and he will notice this. Perhaps its too obvious you are trying to 'please' him, so I would just say to have a think about that one. When you said..
"I said it looked good, we went in and they told us to sit anywhere we wanted. I asked him where he'd like to sit and he said, "I picked the place, you pick where we sit" with a little smile. I got sort of flustered looking for The Perfect Table and I turned to him and said jokingly, "i hate this, can you just pick the table? I promise I won't be mad!"
.. so he did pick up on the fact that you keep acquiesing (sp!) to him and asked you to pick the seat.. so try and gaurd against ALWAYS being like that around him, it might be a little off putting you know? You wouldnt do it with a friend.. be more confident perhaps around him, or less fearful maybe that he will get spooked by the slightest decisive behaviour on your part. Does that help? Something to think on anyway.
Otherwise.. dont be afraid to show off your figure next time, even if you dont bare your flesh. Men are visual and you do need him to be looking at you and thinking.. Mmm.. T's looking good! Its great that he complimented your coat though hey.
I thought it went well and you should congratulate yourself! Its hard though.. as of course it leaves you wanting more and SO MUCH more, I know. Whats your plan for this week then?
