Quote: I am just going to assume that you are trying to play devils advocate here poe Bingo, ...cause it would seem to me, if I recall that my h isn't acting much different than you did before you w left you. No kidding, I did not know what I know now, and do you want the same result for your marriage.
H is clueless or his defense is no action and hope it blows over. The ball is in your court, you complain you have tried this and that. Well is it working, guess not, huh.
Now you claim H does not like to read R stuff, and I have suggested getting audio versions of R stuff, and have you, NO!! You just keep complaining and do the same thing.
I can get you the audios cheap, just email me.
You mention in one of your post that you should go back and read what you posted. I agree, at times I know you are just thinking out loud. We who follow know are use to this. Never the less we don't think you do look at them, you just keep moving along, and never fail to keep us in awe.
You mention the neglise sp, and parading for H in the living room. I will plead guilty to this one, one eveing XW wanted to make out on the couch and I not only rebuff her, and ask her what got into her. This was not normal behaviour for her, and you describe how she felt. I was truly clueless.
You ask the question "Re: am I just an eternal pessimist?" I would say yes, right now, who knows about the future.
