With regards to the moving on thing. The suggestion was given to me about how to respond when she asks why I don't date. : " I am not in a position to be a good partner right now, I have to work on some stuff .....eventually."
Backing off may be a good Idea if he is saying that you are pushing him. Live your life and let him come to you.
Jeff
ME 44 W 32 M 5 T 6
no kids
June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me