LL - just wanted you to know that I have been keeping up with you but haven't posted because I don't have any great insights or words of wisdom. Sometimes I just wish that I could take that velvet-lined 2x4, smack your H upside the head some and say "Get out of your comfort zone! Marriages take work from both people. You have what it takes to make a great marriage with LL but you have got to want to work at it."
I just wish that I had something more constructive to say, LL. But we are thinking of you.
But we are thinking of you. 
