Piecing Friends, The housecleaner came a few days ago. My W was inspired to work while she worked. My W has done more housecleaning in the past week, since I hired the housecleaner, than probably all of last year. My W is more willing to do housecleaning with a housecleaner than with me. She is home today from work, organizing the house for the next cleaning.
The place looks so much better. My W is now wanting to host a dance party. The housecleaner returns in two weeks.
My W accompanied me to yoga twice this past week. This has never happened before.
After yoga on Tuesday night I agreed to go downtown to listen to some jazz. We met someone from our dance community, who travels to Puerto Rico on a yearly basis. My W is wanting to travel there this summer.
I continue to put the dog in daycare 2-3X/week, so that he is not spending every day in a cage.
I continue to cook in a crockpot weekly for my W. This has cut down on complaints that there's nothing to eat in the house, and needing to go out to restaurants several times per week.
She still has her mood swings and can be unpredictable, and sharp with her words.
DR advises to experiment and monitor results. The influence of the cooking, doggie daycare, and now hiring a housecleaner seems to be positive.
I'm planning on attending a Friendship Force meeting next Friday to listen to a world traveler talk about their experiences, and to see if this group will fit my W and I. My W wants to attend also. My sense is we're ready for a group like this, and will fit in well.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."