Quote: Would H be open the reading "The 5 Love Languages." Maybe he would get that he needs to meet your needs even though they are not the same as his?
h will not read it but I have explained the concept and what the different ll's are to him...he knows that he is acts of service, don't think he's aware of the fact that he's also words of affirmation.
he knows full well that I am quality time and physical touch but his take on things is he's only going to do what comes natural.
Quote: I think you need to flat out tell him what you want/need. No hinting around. Pick the right time though. H obviously is not very observant. nik
