So it still seems as though W isn't that motivated to actually start working on the M. What happened last time with getting her schedule to work MC into it? Sorry, I've missed a lot in the last couple of weeks and am trying to catch up with everyone!
It would be great to see our S's take the initiative on their own, but we know that won't always happen, and if we kind of sit back and just go with the flow, then we are sort of enabling it ourselves, ya know? So while we might be a bit frustrated with the fact that nothing is happening, we should know that we are part of the reason why the status quo remains. I have realized this with my own sitch.
I think in some cases, there comes a time when we have to show our S's that we will not wait any longer. We will not put aside our needs/wants simply because it isn't "convenient" for them. The status quo is not acceptable, so something must change. Sometimes that means we are the ones that have to see to it. We have to continue giving that "push".
If memory serves, I think you had her schedule last time without it having come from her. Could this happen again? Could you just make the appt (to SHOW her you mean business and you're not going to wait on it because this is important to you, right?) and reschedule, if necessary?
(((((Jeff)))))
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
