Originally Posted By: ral819
I was just wondering. Let's say that if my sitch isn't MLC, would you conduct yourself in the same fashion ??? I am Re- reading every reply in this blog and it just dawned on me, "what if I'm misreading the W " ? I really believe that my W's confusion is at least partly due to MLC and I'm working on the parts I've contributed to. Is this path that I'm on still the right one...?

From what I have read, and understand, yes. Your path is right in either case. The big difference from what I can see is that if it is MLC your actions won't do as much to change the R. That's why you do it for you, and not for them. If it is MLC, there is time to pass, and you can't do much to speed it up.