Like I just couldn't care less about anything. Because, thats what I try to do in person when I DO see her. Non-chalant and moving on kind of attitude. My emails may be all nice and fuzzy to her, but in person, completely different deal. I stay quiet, don't really ask her much of anything and just put my focus on the kids.
Like two different persona's. I don't think that I really email her or contact her much at all. At least it doesn't feel like it. It's been when she engages me that I give a response.
From the outside, I must really SEEM crazy.
I think you're actually fairly consistent in giving your W the message that you do care about her and will always be there for her. You need to pull back and stop all the emails that aren't necessary re: bills and kids. You don't do that.
Honestly, you are so funny and sweet. I think that if you actually ever pulled back and did a good job at doing that, your W would miss you horribly and actually have to think about something other than eating cake. But if you want to keep living in limbo, go for it. Karen
