And that's about all any of us can do. Live our lives the best way we can. With or without the nuckleheads.

But I gotta say, and its just an observation, you sound beat, suga. You DON'T sound mad or anything, but just....like you've been beat.

I know that feeling. Realizations can do that, I guess. And it might FEEL that way, but guess what? We are so much stronger people because of the hell that we've gone through.

And whatever happens will be the right thing for you.


Bear hugs to ya'.


Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."