in a galaxy far, far away...

[Silent Chrleader]

Hi, (((((BM))))).

I'm sorry that you are at this point. But you seem to be do really well keeping strong. I too said some things in an e-mail to my H that probably wasn't "good DBing" but was honest (it's on my thread). Yellowrose once told me that she mostly went with her gut in times of confusion, so I think that that is OK. You have to be true to yourself. There is strength in that!

I hope you can work together regarding you S. It's important that he knows you both love him and that he doesn't have to take sides (and indeed he shouldn't). That is one thing my H and I have done is not badmouth each other....certainly not to the kids. I still often defend H to the kids. Kids are always going to be "in the middle" some no matter how hard you try not to put them there, but you should keep it to a minimum if at all possible, for their own self image.

Take care!!

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