Separating Soon

[kb1234]

Hello to a new forum.
I was over in newcomers for a while, but new situation, new thread.
Old thread is here:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1604532

Wife is preparing to move out to an apartment.
Custody of children will be shared as we go through this.

When wife first spoke of this in September 2008, I was totally opposed. First she wanted me to be the one to move out.
Now she wants to move out.
I am actually strangely ok with it. As long as I get to see my children.

I do not hold any false hope, we are probably on the road to divorce.

We worked out a visitation/custody schedule through the end of February 2009. I said I could not go beyond that, although I know that once she moves out, the visitation/custody will have to continue.

So any advice for this situation?