I think I need it explained to me yet, another time, how they can by Jeckel and Hyde.
How can H be so desperate for money to threaten me, then a couple hours later make a happy father son phone call????
H is trying to get s14 to spend time at his place this weekend...s14 does not want to and is not responding.
H is probably thinking I am behind it.
Also, a divorce man, new friend, offered to talk to me about 'D' stuff....but, I don't know if that was an excuse to just spend time with me.
He is the only divorced, single man I know...and he knows my kids a little, so I'd like to compare notes somewhat. But, I don't know him well enough to know if talking about divorce is an imposition or 'just too much'.
My friend offered, but has not followed through. He's busy, but...as with all men...I'll just keep on GAL and do my own thing.
Heck, this detachment and GAL has been good training:)
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home