you think over 2 years is early in the process? yikes...

i have a hard time thinking im not the more attractive option. i couldnt be prettier, i couldnt be thinner, i couldnt dress any better. and he knows it. i go to the gym 5 days a week and do plenty for myself, out with friends and take our son independently everywhere.

what other changes could i make? do i start going out when he comes to hang out? i feel like that takes away time from being with him. and like i said, going dark, or any version of dark, would not work on him.

the only thing that would shake him up is if i was dating, which i cant, because we are married, not even legally separated.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09