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[gForce]

I don't think it matters too much whether you talk to him or not. But keep your interactions as emotion-free as possible. No R-talk unless H initiates. What are you doing to GAL? Let H see that your life is not on hold, waiting for him to bless you with his return. Make yourelf the more attrative alternative. Do not tell him what you are doing - let him SEE the changes you are making in yourself.

In my sitch, it took a while before W was convinced that what I was doing was genuine, and not just a short-term ploy. Be patient. That is the hardest part. It feels like forever, I know, but you are very early in this process.