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LL, seems to me he's SCREAMING I love you and I'm sorry...only in his OWN language!!! english is a much nicer language why doesn't he speak that one?

Hon, I think he's smelling the coffee already.

I KNOW you need closure on the entire A issue and what it's done to you, LL. I do too, but CJ has made more steps in that direction than your H has.

It's just occurred to me that part of why your H may NOT be "trying as hard" is that really DIDN'T get physical with OW and so from his (genetically) male-biased view...it wasn't "that much" of a betrayal!!! that's a nice thought! wish I could believe it whole heartedly

Now we all know that's nonsense, but it would explain some of his behaviours, no? yes, it would.

SOOO, how have you "been" around him today? the best damn "act as if" you've ever seen! but I'm sure he senses something is up because I've been spending a bit more time at the puter at night and he knows I come here. Is it his own guilt over the argument or him sensing changes in you that is spurring this "acts of service/words of affirmation" spurt? I would hope his guilt (is that bad?) and also I'd attribute his squirming to not knowing what to do about it, sorry might just seem like too easy a solution to him so he's at a loss.

Gotta get outside before the bb lures me in for the rest of the night. yes the bb does have the ability to do that doesn't it.

Later

Shiny