I think you both have something there. My W has said that she doesn't think I really love her and that she doesn't think I'm really interested in reconciling either. I don't know what she bases that on, because I've consistently said that I want to work on our M and she has consistently shot me down. Nonetheless, she has said those things, so there must be something there. I don't know how to fight for her w/out the pursuing that DB says will only turn her off. It is such a delicate thing and hard to balance. Any tips on how I can fight for her without pushing her further away? WP
