i agree, i just dont know how to do it. it seems he doesnt take me too seriously because of how long i have waited and how long i have believed him when it turns out he is lying. how do i show i am serious without calling the lawyer and proceeding with divorce?

going dark does not work on him. i dont know how to continue to fight for him while knowing very well he is still seeing her and probably lying to keep both worlds alive as long as he can.

me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09