After I posted that, I went throguh the mail, she got a letter from our insurance company asking why no report was filed, why they weren't notified with 48 hours of the accident and to complete an accident report immeditely and give a copy to the local police department in the town where it happened. She caused serious damage to the other vehicle. The law is that if you are in an accident that has personal property damage of over $1000, it must be reported to the police within 24 hours. She never did, why, because she was drinking i suspect. thisis why no one got hold of her and why she never called anyone, she was hiding, like a little kid.
She overdrew the bank account again also. She doesn't get paid agian until next thursday, she is in the hole for over $300 right now. the bank aceepeted her low car payment but says in a letter that it was not the "discussed and promised" amount. If they do not get the remainder of the balance by today, they will look to take collateral ownership of the vehicle. (repossess). That puts her over $1000 as of today. As a cosigner of the loan I also recevied a similar letter, i am not reading her mail. I am not responsible for her dept on this. Talked to a lawyer and they are contacting me as the co-signer, but the bottom line is if she loses this car she is screwed.
I am not rollingin dough , but if this situation was with me, I could pay the difference, the bank proble, and the bounced check. It would set me back and take a few weeks to recover, but I could do it. I won't. I am praying that this at least gets her start thinking about what she has done and where she is headed. Start thinkking about the money you are blowing partying, buying yourslef new outfits you can't afford, writing checks and praying money goes in the bank before they bounce. all this has caught up to her. I wonder if this will actually make her crash.