I have to ask:

Did he tell you all of these things while on the AD's or has he already gotton himself off of them?

I guess I am asking because if he goes off of them, it will probably make him think/feel quite differently. That is my concern.

I am glad he had that talk with you about not focusing on the negatives and that is very positive but getting off the AD's is a concern. What if the doctor says to stay on them and he goes against the doctor's advice? I know AD's change a person but getting off of them can be difficult as well.

I guess we will just have to wait until he meets with the doctor.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19