Not focusing on my h hardly at all the last few weeks.

He very rarely calls any of us any longer. He used to call S18 almost everyday now rarely calls him if at all. Takes hours to return a text message from the kids, if at all anymore.

He has not texted me in over a month! And he called me just once in the last 6+ weeks.

I don't know if this is good or not considering he is able to handle anything I have to say which has not been mean or manipulative. And we get along fine.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19