For me Jeff.. because the heart wants what the heart wants! He is my soulmate. But also, I have had boyfriends before and lived with 2 other men when younger and so I have something to compare to, and noone compares to him (despite his behavioour over the past year!).
For you.. well, can you answer that? Is it love? Is it she is the one? Is it that she is your soulmate? Or, is it habit? Fear of the alternatives? Comfort? I dont know !
Things have been a little quiet, havent they! I'd like a Baileys please.. MMmmmmm