H and I agreed today, to not speak, text or email each other for 2 weeks. We both need to cool off, and perhaps I'll have a different perspective on things. He's also promised in the next two weeks to not file any paperwork in regards to the house (claiming primary residence). I think it's good that we take these two weeks, and I know for myself that I'm still seething with anger and will probably take that long to calm down. You have no idea how much today has me stirred up. I don't want a divorce, and felt like I got kicked in the stomach when the officer told me he filed.
I don't know how to be as strong as I'm going to have to be. I don't think that kind of strength is in me.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
