Guys I just wanted to say that my xh is constantly telling me to go on with my life and find someone. We are divorced (this only started almost 4 months ago now, and yes he wanted a quick divorce, so he could move on without the quilt of cheating), and he tells me this alot. It's like he is praying I will find someone else. When I ask why he is in such a hurry for me to move on, he says so I will leave him alone and give him space. He says I am trying to push a friendship on him. He told me to move on early in the seperation, I personally think its because he felt so guilty. Should I move on? From what you said above, it removes guilt from him and makes it easier for him. We are divorced, but I am still praying to reconcile, especially since it happened all at once and its not been that long. I am, not contacting him,,,its only been a day, but I have to start sometime.
