It's Complicated! Part 3

[glamgirl]

Well it was an interesting day to say the least.

I had sent h an e-mail early early day. Needed to make sure he was meeting the insurance adjuster for the car. He e-mailed me back and said he would be at the house around 2pm.

He called before 2pm and said hi Glam how are you. Now I hadn't spoke to him in a few days. I said just fine h. We talked about the rest of the day. H was having the insurance adjuster look at his car and then he needed to drop it off at the body shop and pick up a rental.

He called when he was done with all that and said before I pick up D4 how about you and I go grab a bite to eat. So h comes over to my work and picks me up in his rental car.

We had a nice dinner. Now h starts telling me h wants to get off the AD's altogether. He wants to work out and that he is going to his Dr next week.

Get this! He said that he has been focusing on all the negative's about me and that is not fair to me. It was a little dissappointing at first to hear that he was doing that, but hopefully this will now change. He said that he too has to rememember all the positives too. He said Glam let's make the good better and the bad let's not make it any worse.

I did ask h what positives he liked about me. Not in a gloating fashion, but what is it exactly that he likes. It is important to me to hear what he likes about me too. Remember I don't hear this very often.

H said Glam you are a good w and mother, you do a good job of balancing work and child responsibilities while I am not in the home. We (as in h and I) do a good job of parenting together. You do a good job of managing the home. You are very patient with me. I felt pretty hopeful that h did really like me for a change. Many times I have felt that he really hasn't cared. This was huge for me.

H even agreed to go for a drive to the coast with the kids on Sat. This should be fun for the kids and h and I. We haven't done this probably in 3 years. I did suggest staying overnight on Fri, but h said no to that. That is fine, we really don't need to be gone the whole weekend, but think a weekend together could be a possibility in the future.

He said I will pick you up from work for MC tomorrow and then left. Hmmmmmm is he awakening or what?