I do not pay her for staying home - she just has used whatever cash there has been as if I did.
I knew that was actually the case when I posted, I just could not BELIEVE that she would think that, let alone say it out loud and think it was ok.
I'm sorry Randy, but your W needs some serious psychiatric counseling. She is delusional and your k's are being made to suffer because she is being a child instead of an adult.
Originally Posted By: lost_in_space
(((S+S)))
She is sick. She is delusional. She is lost (Puppy you were right). She is so alone and dragging the kids down.
Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
No offense to anyone here, certainly not our dear LIS, as I've been doing this on his thread too recently, but looking back over these posts just now, I see WAY too many "she", "she", "she"; "her", "her", "her."
OK, we will all STIPULATE that she's lost, crazy, nutso, botz, certifiable and childish right now. The question is, what are you going to DO about it? What is working that you can continue, what is NOT working that you can change, and what is your PLAN for the next day, week and month?
I think you're still REACTING to her mostly.
Puppy
Oh and I think I will also re-post what is one of the best lines I have heard in a while, said in respinse to me saying W should contribute financilly to covering family expenses:
Originally Posted By: W of Lost
no I don't and I never have and I never will. You pay me for my job to stay at home. This is my full time job. What I do over and above that obviously is going to be my money. But my job currently is a stay at home mom which was mutually agreed upon by both of us. Therefore I am entitled to your income as well.
Puppy, you are right. Too much focus on W. This is a new year and I told myself no more of that. Yet I am not sure of what to do. Things are with L's - my response is yet to go in and will be done soon. I AM doing more for me and am not too worried about what W is doing. Puppy, I have done things that MAYBE are starting to be felt (financial) but I did those for me and k"s, not to "get to W". What else would you do if in my sitch? What would the others do in my sitch?
LIS
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No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
