Lady B calm down!!! if there are papers signed and he is not allowing you access to your property then all you need to do is contact the local Sheriff Department to gain entry. Also as I said he has a lot of growing up to do in the M . You are very hurt right now and angry and that’s ok. But remember hoe HE acts when he lets his emotions fly off the handle. Be better then him ( As you have been). Do contact a lawyer. Also don’t pay the mortgage. He lives there he pays period,