Was that a speedbump or a milestone?

[sleeper]

Technically I believe she said, "we should sit down and talk." It was I who decided it wouldn't happen without a counselor present.

IF (and that's a BIG "if" at this point) I wanted her back a lot a lot of things would have to change as far as the way we relate to one another.

For now I plan on having less and less contact with X. She's made this decision very easy with her recent spew. In fact, I'm having a little difficulty balancing lack of contact with downright rudeness on my part while having no difficulty with either one occuring.

I'm now dating a 36 year old, very attractive and talented lady who enjoys my company and doesn't bite chunks out of my @ss.

At this point the ONLY reason I would consider reconcilliation is for the sake of the children.

But as I recall, at bomb X said, "Having children is no reason to stay in a bad marriage."

Heck, we're not even married anymore.